Haha, I'm laughing and crying at the same time. Yesterday at the commissary I picked up the 20lb bag of dog food and the bagger was like "Ma'am you don't need to be picking that up yourself, you should wait for someone to help you." I'm praying that he was just being a gentleman and not assuming that I was with child.
So Megan it must have been the day because last night as I was playing volleyball with a bunch of ladies from all around here, I dove to try and dig a ball and this lady that I don't really know and she doesn't really know me either said, "pregnant ladies aren't supposed to dive." I just smiled and then about wanted to bawl. Thank heavens it was the last game. I should have said well "fat ladies can!" j/k I didn't want to make her feel dumb or have EVERYONE look at me and decide whether or not I look pregnant or not?! I have seen recent pics of you and you do not look pregnant, you look really good! I can not say the same for me but I didn't think I looked pregnant?! ;) Hope your day is better today!
What was she thinking? You don't even look remotely pregnant! Were you wearing one of those empire-styled shirts? I know they are really popular nowadays but to me they look like maternity shirts.... Maybe she thinks they look like maternity shirts too?
Hey, crazy to hear from you. We are moving and I just ran across an old letter that has a check to your husband in it. I think we have had it forever. When your husband borrowed a book from Jessie it was in there and when you guys moved, nobody had your address or anything then I totally forgot about it. But we have it and I would love to send it to ya. I'm so sorry I forgot about it! Will you email me your address and I will mail it asap. cowgirlupem@yahoo.com As far as the whole pregnant thing goes I think you look great. I remember when Lilly was a couple months old and I went into the store to get teething tablets and the lady asked when I was due. I just looked at her and said oh I already had my baby and she just looked at me and said oh I looked like that after I had my baby too. Ya, I wanted to cry I think I did cry. But that motivated me to get in shape. My body will never be the same after having a baby, but to have Lilly it's worth it! How are you guys liking Cali? What part do you live in? I would love to end up there. Tell Erick Hi Jess was just talking about him the other day. How's he liking the fire department? Your little Lily is beautiful by the way! Take care and keep in touch!
Hahaha- don't you love tactful people? A lady in my ward just 2 weeks ago turned around in sacrament meeting and said, "I heard you were pregnant, how are you feeling?" She told me yesterday that every time she sees me now she feels embarassed!
I have always thought you look great!! A year after having the twins I still look about 5 months pregnant....our poor poor tummies. Mine was never flat though so I guess I have always looked preggers:) I know it has been a few years since we have seen each other but from the pictures you still look as amazing as ever!
So rude! Those are the moments where you wish you had a really witty comeback, and then you almost always think of it hours later. Unless a baby is actually coming out of a woman at the time, it is never ok to ask if she is pregnant. And I agree with the other comments - you don't look pregnant!
Same thing happened with me. I was at the store and the cashier asked when I was due. I just said, "Oh, I just had him." I didn't feel too insulted since it was less than a week since I had Gavin.
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Haha, I'm laughing and crying at the same time. Yesterday at the commissary I picked up the 20lb bag of dog food and the bagger was like "Ma'am you don't need to be picking that up yourself, you should wait for someone to help you." I'm praying that he was just being a gentleman and not assuming that I was with child.
You're beautiful.
So Megan it must have been the day because last night as I was playing volleyball with a bunch of ladies from all around here, I dove to try and dig a ball and this lady that I don't really know and she doesn't really know me either said, "pregnant ladies aren't supposed to dive." I just smiled and then about wanted to bawl. Thank heavens it was the last game. I should have said well "fat ladies can!" j/k I didn't want to make her feel dumb or have EVERYONE look at me and decide whether or not I look pregnant or not?! I have seen recent pics of you and you do not look pregnant, you look really good! I can not say the same for me but I didn't think I looked pregnant?! ;) Hope your day is better today!
What was she thinking? You don't even look remotely pregnant! Were you wearing one of those empire-styled shirts? I know they are really popular nowadays but to me they look like maternity shirts.... Maybe she thinks they look like maternity shirts too?
Megan, I get that too when I am a bit bloated or if I wear a babydoll shirt! Aaaah, the joys of being a woman!
Hey, crazy to hear from you. We are moving and I just ran across an old letter that has a check to your husband in it. I think we have had it forever. When your husband borrowed a book from Jessie it was in there and when you guys moved, nobody had your address or anything then I totally forgot about it. But we have it and I would love to send it to ya. I'm so sorry I forgot about it! Will you email me your address and I will mail it asap.
cowgirlupem@yahoo.com
As far as the whole pregnant thing goes I think you look great. I remember when Lilly was a couple months old and I went into the store to get teething tablets and the lady asked when I was due. I just looked at her and said oh I already had my baby and she just looked at me and said oh I looked like that after I had my baby too.
Ya, I wanted to cry I think I did cry. But that motivated me to get in shape. My body will never be the same after having a baby, but to have Lilly it's worth it!
How are you guys liking Cali? What part do you live in? I would love to end up there. Tell Erick Hi Jess was just talking about him the other day. How's he liking the fire department? Your little Lily is beautiful by the way! Take care and keep in touch!
Hahaha- don't you love tactful people? A lady in my ward just 2 weeks ago turned around in sacrament meeting and said, "I heard you were pregnant, how are you feeling?" She told me yesterday that every time she sees me now she feels embarassed!
Megan- You are the hottest, hippest mom I know! YOU DO NOT IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM LOOK PREGNANT!! The end.
I have always thought you look great!! A year after having the twins I still look about 5 months pregnant....our poor poor tummies. Mine was never flat though so I guess I have always looked preggers:) I know it has been a few years since we have seen each other but from the pictures you still look as amazing as ever!
So rude! Those are the moments where you wish you had a really witty comeback, and then you almost always think of it hours later. Unless a baby is actually coming out of a woman at the time, it is never ok to ask if she is pregnant. And I agree with the other comments - you don't look pregnant!
That sucks. I still get that every once in a while. And I thought I had lost some weight... apparently not. I bet you look great though.
Same thing happened with me. I was at the store and the cashier asked when I was due. I just said, "Oh, I just had him." I didn't feel too insulted since it was less than a week since I had Gavin.
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